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unsure.gif Do I look confused?

Well, I should look! One of my best frens asked me how is it like falling in love. I have no answer to that question.

Wish I could say what I feel but . . . no words. rolleyes.gif Can someone help me. ..tell me how is it like falling in real love . .

-Nabin-

... when it happened to me, I knew that the guy would be the father of my children, even if I didn't want children at this period.
I can't explain you what you feel. It's just that you know.

-Missele-

love is like being smacked in the back of the head with a shovel.
yup, i should have been a greeting card writer (hallmark, here i come).
in all honesty, what kind of person asks these kind of questions? don't people have better things to do? feelings don't make my cells differentiate when they're supposed to. sad.gif

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-vetticus3-

falling in love is something unique.

There isnt a single word to describe it yet it is a single word.

One feels a whole lot of things for the one single person.

As some one said, Not to have fallen in love is as if you have not lived life at all.

Its the most dearest thing yet costs you nothing.

Fall in love once , Nabin and you will never be lonely anymore.

-scolix-

QUOTE (scolix @ Dec 20 2006, 03:16 PM)
Fall in love once , Nabin and you will never be lonely anymore.


Ok...I just have to throw in a disagreement and bring up an age-old arguement. I think to have been in love and to lost that love is the loneliest that anyone can feel. Not only have you lost the love of your life, the person you shared everything with, but you have also lost the only person who could possibly help you deal with it. No amount of comfort from anyone can fill that void.

-cwarnes-

QUOTE (cwarnes @ Dec 20 2006, 05:31 PM)
QUOTE (scolix @ Dec 20 2006, 03:16 PM)

Fall in love once , Nabin and you will never be lonely anymore.


Ok...I just have to throw in a disagreement and bring up an age-old arguement. I think to have been in love and to lost that love is the loneliest that anyone can feel. Not only have you lost the love of your life, the person you shared everything with, but you have also lost the only person who could possibly help you deal with it. No amount of comfort from anyone can fill that void.


I agree in a way. But once u have fallen in love u could always have ur good memories. And its better than not falling in love at all.

-scolix-

Tennyson said it best...

"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

-bob1-

Nabin, tell her she will know the feeling ONLY when she falls in love herself. tongue.gif

I think it is impossible to describe and generalize cause it is different for every person and even different for the same person as he grows up and changes.

You can feel super lonely when in love, and you can also never know neither loneliness nor feeling of "in love". Every person is different there is no need to argue.

Vetticus, be nice to poeple tongue.gif Every discussion is nice, it doesnt make my cloning work either though sad.gif

-Kathy-

QUOTE (Missele @ Dec 21 2006, 02:14 AM)
.. ..I knew that the guy would be the father of my children

This was very simplified . .. I know what to look for now wink.gif but dunno if I should say this as an answer.

QUOTE (vetticus3 @ Dec 21 2006, 06:12 AM)
love is like being smacked in the back of the head with a shovel.
. . what kind of person asks these kind of questions? . . don't people have better things to do? feelings don't make my cells differentiate when they're supposed to. sad.gif
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U love Ur cells don't U? ((( Wow ))

People like me asks these sort of questions. . . tagged as 'confused' unsure.gif I had never thought about this part of life but the one who asked made me think about this cause she is such a nice girl and I was amazed that till now no body made her fall in love sad.gif . .. as for her, I am sure anyone who sees her once will fall in love. rolleyes.gif

QUOTE (scolix @ Dec 21 2006, 06:16 AM)
. . whole lot of things for the one single person.

Not to have fallen in love is as if you have not lived life at all.

Fall in love once , Nabin and you will never be lonely anymore.


huh.gif Never thought of this part of life. And some threads that I went thru scared hell out of me.

QUOTE (cwarnes @ Dec 21 2006, 08:31 AM)
. . to have been in love and to lost that love is the loneliest that anyone can feel.

That's what is scary! Two may love each other like anything but time changes and so do people and priorities in life

QUOTE (scolix @ Dec 21 2006, 08:49 AM)
. .But once u have fallen in love u could always have ur good memories. And its better than not falling in love at all.

Good memories are the ones that make U feel bad later when U realise they are not possible any longer.

QUOTE (bob1 @ Dec 21 2006, 09:40 AM)
Tennyson said it best...
"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

I wonder why he said that . . .

QUOTE (Kathy @ Dec 21 2006, 09:42 AM)
Nabin, tell her she will know the feeling ONLY when she falls in love herself. tongue.gif

I think it is impossible to describe and generalize cause it is different for every person and even different for the same person as he grows up and changes.

You can feel super lonely when in love, and you can also never know neither loneliness nor feeling of "in love". Every person is different there is no need to argue.

Vetticus, be nice to poeple tongue.gif Every discussion is nice, it doesnt make my cloning work either though sad.gif


Kathy U are probably right. I have much to explore in this but the way and time this question she put made me really think a lot. I have still more than half the life to live and I think I have wasted my first half already by not ever thinking about this. . . so this is important to me than my cells growing or not or running a gel

Vetticus . .. cells and gels can wait . .. . but bells of life should be ringing!

I argued with her that frenship is better than love. If I had a crush . .. I will divert that to frenship rather than love as love is almost all or none phenomenon while frenship .. . they bloom as it matures. So, now I have lot of frens and with them all the time but no real love and never bothered. But, she has different argument though she claims she never fell in love.

Thank U all for replies. . . I would love to hear more on this before I get a chance to talk to her again. Beauty of a person is directly proportional to frequency at which U get to see her . . . so I dunno when will than be next.. . this time it was after . . may be 2 months or so (that also not in person .. online)

-Nabin-

falling in love is like what is decribed in my fave love poem by e.e. cummings smile.gif

somewhere i have never travelled, gladly beyond
any experience, your eyes have their silence:
in your most frail gesture are things which enclose me,
or which i cannot touch because they are too near

your slightest look easily will unclose me
though i have closed myself as fingers,
you open always petal by petal myself as Spring opens
(touching skilfully, mysteriously) her first rose

or if your wish be to close me, i and
my life will shut very beautifully, suddenly,
as when the heart of this flower imagines
the snow carefully everywhere descending;

nothing which we are to perceive in this world equals
the power of your intense fragility: whose texture
compels me with the colour of its countries,
rendering death and forever with each breathing

(i do not know what it is about you that closes
and opens; only something in me understands
the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses)
nobody, not even the rain, has such small hands

-- e. e. cummings

-arvinsign-

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