Thank you umam and kedar for your replies.
If I understand Real-Time PCR correctly we have two quantification strategies; absolute and relative quantification. Absolute quantification relates on calibration curve and standards, while relative quantification is based on the expression levels of a target gene versus reference gene (housekeeping gene, control gene). Relative quantification does not require standards. Ok to here is everything crystal clear

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If you go through "User Bulletin #2" from Applied Biosystems, you'll see that you have two relative quantification methods; one is relative standard curve method and the other is comparative Ct method (ddCt).
Relative STANDARD method:
as it already says in the name you need some kind of standards to do this method. To be precise you need standard, calibrator and tester. There is no need for standard to be experimental sample, as long it expresses both the target and endogenous control genes. Calibrator is some basis sample (usully control) and your target quantities are expressed as an n-fold difference relative to the calibrator. You can use calibrator as standard as well. Tester is your target, treated sample.
For this method standards are required, but all you need to know is their relative dilutions.
Adventages: minimum amount of validation;
highly accurate quantitative results;
Disadventages: standard curves on each plate;
requires a lot of reagents;
if you are using calibrator as standard, you'll need a lot of calibrator (BIG problem if your
calibrator is in short supply).
Comparative Ct method (ddCt method):
you can make it in two ways; with or without efficiency correction. If you are doing ddCt without efficiency correction you don't need standards. It is strongly recomended that you do efficiency correction because result are more reliable. For PCR efficiency you need to do, so called, validation experiment. In validation experiment efficiencies of amplicons are achieved by running standard curves. If the PCR efficiencies between the target and reference gene are relatively equal (absolute value of the slope of Ct vs. log input is < 0.1), only then you don't need to use standard curves.
Advantages: elimination of standard curves (as long as validation experiment is performed);
reduced ragent usage;
Disadvantages: inital validation
Ok this was short summary of "User Bulletin #2" by Applied Biosystems.
And here comes my dilemma.
I will probably use comparative Ct method but I don't know which sample to use for validation experiment. As I said I have three groups of samples (A, B and C) and in each group there are three experimental replicates.
If I choose group A for my control and do the validation experiment, can I put equal amount of A1, A2 and A3 together, do dilutions and run Real-Time PCR? Or do I use just one sample (A1) and run Real-Time PCR?
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Real-Time PCR experts help me out! I am novice in Real-Time PCR and I would really like to know how to do it before I go to lab and actually do it

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