What do I do with this woman?
#1
Posted 26 November 2012 - 10:47 PM
#2
Posted 27 November 2012 - 12:53 AM
So, as we say in czech.. "se stim smiř".
I never trust anything that can't be doubted.
#3
Posted 27 November 2012 - 04:34 AM
#4
Posted 27 November 2012 - 04:43 AM
If you get anything from someone, never trust it, check everything, find your way to work with it, if it's not completely useless. The quicker you figure it all out, the better feeling you can have that they did't win. Think of yourself as a witty guy who found the truth inspite the balks they put in your way. That's the game. And for now you won. If you get permanent position on top university you can decide yourself if you are going to be a jerk or not.
I never trust anything that can't be doubted.
#5
Posted 27 November 2012 - 05:13 AM
And in the end it will be your word against hers, and I think that people would generally believe it to be a mistake over malicious intent.
I know it is frustrating that you have wasted so much time, but chalk it up to experience and in future check everything. I think it is kind of unfair to imply that she isn't deserving of her job over what could very well have been a simple mistake.
Can I just say though, if it was on purpose, I don't think this is a common thing. We have often got reagents, plasmids, viruses,antibodies and mouse strains from other labs over years and have never once had a problem. There are good people out there
#6
Posted 27 November 2012 - 08:18 AM
I never trust anything that can't be doubted.
#7
Posted 27 November 2012 - 06:26 PM
Edited by leelee, 27 November 2012 - 06:26 PM.
#8
Posted 27 November 2012 - 06:35 PM
@ trof, the plasmid she sent to me is not hers. It is made by somebody else but she is the one who keeps it. The plasmid is made by a well-known retired professor. He has helped me so much during the last year although he is totally retired. He introduced me to this woman, and then she sent the plasmid to me. ....I already told the retired professor there could be a problem with the sequence, but I have not told him I sequenced it last week,...if he finds out she sent me a wrong sequence he will be upset, I am sure....I haven't told him yet because I didn't want to make chaos over there. I wanted to find the best approach first....
#9
Posted 27 November 2012 - 09:51 PM
I can understand your frustration and the amount of time and energy you must have spent on getting the plasmid to work. But I think you are being too harsh to her. Agreed, she should have replied by now, but like leelee said, she might not just have seen your mail. She is just a caretaker of the plasmid, so its very likely, that she does not know much about the plasmid. She just sent you the sequence, she has on her record (which could have been wrong in the first place). So, she is not really to blame.
And why are you belittling your own work/ lab for such a small thing. You do not really know how things are in Oxford/ Cambridge, unless you are actually there.... (the grass looks greener on the other side)
Besides, if she really wanted you to have the wrong plasmid, she could have sent you one, why go through the whole rigmarole of sending you an carefully edited sequence. Or not send you one at all.
Yes, you have been at the receiving end of all this, and we really do not know what you have gone through, but at least give her one chance of clearing the air on this isssue. Questioning her education qualifications is a bit too harsh....
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#10
Posted 27 November 2012 - 10:20 PM
#11
Posted 27 November 2012 - 11:28 PM
Innocent till proven guilty
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#12
Posted 29 November 2012 - 08:15 PM
#13
Posted 30 November 2012 - 04:43 AM
Guilty!
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#14
Posted 30 November 2012 - 09:16 AM
-- Bernard M. Baruch
#15
Posted 30 November 2012 - 05:11 PM
prabhubct, on 30 November 2012 - 09:16 AM, said:
I agree. You'd first have to prove that she deliberately sent you the wrong sequence. Which would be very difficult. Particularly as the error is some repeats, which seems to me fairly easily explained as a copy/paste type error.
So the worst you could prove is that she ignored your emails. Yes it is rude and annoying for you- but I hardly think it makes her a bad scientist or bad at her job or whatever- and I really doubt her boss or institution will care.
If you take it further, best case scenario, they believe you- then what? You'll get an apology. That's it. I really think you would come out of this worse than she will! And you could kiss goodbye any chance of getting anything from them in the future.
Honestly, it is not unusual for communication with people from other labs to take some time. They are busy, they are doing you a favour and you are not their priority.
I understand your frustration, I really do, but I think you have to let this one go. You don't want to harm your own reputation for something like this.














